Sometimes, everyone should act like Jeff Probst.

I watched last week’s episode of Survivor with my girlfriend and observed a life lesson. Mr. Probst engaged in a pre-challenge discussion with contestant Mitch Guerra, who stutters. As they spoke, the host asked, “When you’re struggling, do you want help from someone …?”

Mr. Guerra responded by expressing appreciation for the question and explaining that he hoped people would give him the opportunity to complete his thought. I wish more of us dared to ask someone about the “struggle” we perceive them enduring.

I walk with a limp (a “pimp limp”), do not enunciate my words with the clarity I’d prefer, and my right eye is off-center. These issues are the result of a traumatic brain injury I sustained in 2005. I echo Mr. Guerra’s sentiments and, at times, want to ink “ASK ME ABOUT IT” across my forehead.

I am not ashamed of my physical differences. I’m a badass for persevering after a 30-foot fall that should have killed me. Mr. Guerra is one for appearing on national television and embracing his stutter. And you are rad for enduring your struggles—visible or hidden.

The world would be better if we find the courage of curiosity.